Friday, January 20, 2012

for a Cabbage Patch Doll


The year was 1982, it was early in the fall and I was Christmas shopping for my two daughters who were then nine and fourteen.  We lived in a small rural community and the nearest place to shop was Woodstock, a town almost an hour’s drive away.   My last stop of the day was the newly opened Canadian Tire.   I was perusing the Christmas decoration when I heard a commotion. I followed the noise and discovered a staff member setting up a display of dolls.
 But a different kind of doll, Cabbage Patch dolls.  A crowd had gathered laughing and negating these new creations.  With round faces and pug noses, they proclaimed to have been harvested from the cabbage patch.  Their maker Xavier Roberts had signed every doll and provided them with adoption papers.  Intuitively I chose one doll with blonde hair and one with dark brown (just like my daughters).  They were $24.99, expensive in that day.  But I knew they were going to be popular.


I took them home and hid them in one of my many “secret” hiding places.  And waited.  I waited for the girls to talk about them, waited for commercials during the Saturday cartoons, waited to see them in the Christmas sales flyers.  Nothing.   October came and the girls made their Christmas lists, first draft.    November, second draft.  Still no word of Cabbage Patch dolls.  I was beginning to think my shoppers savvy had done me wrong.  End of November, the media blitz began. In days all stores were sold out.  Suddenly a Cabbage Patch doll was tops on Leisa’s list and Vavielle was saying they were “cute”.  I was very pleased with myself.

Then the ads began “Wanted to buy – Cabbage Patch doll, willing to pay any price.”  And so it went, the going price rose to $200.   That was half of our mortgage payment!   At that price I brought Vavielle into the decision.  Should Santa leave one for her or should it be sold.  Then she could have the money for other purchases, probably a skating dress.  Vavielle opted to sell.

 On Christmas morning when Leisa found her doll under the tree she was over joyed.  The adoption papers pronounced her to be “Lauren” and the official ceremony was oft repeated.  Truly my impromptu purchase gave my daughters Christmas the glow of happiness.


 Leisa loved that doll long and hard.   In an odd twist of fate she later won another Cabbage Patch doll at a community fund raiser.  But the second doll did not have the magic of her beloved Lauren.



As I write this Leisa is in the hospital, admitted for tests and observation for some troubling symptoms.  Nearing forty and a Mother herself, Leisa always is my little girl.  My wish for both my daughters is good health, loving families, happiness and financial stability. 

 Just as No one asked me   for a Cabbage Patch Kid, they do not ask me to  enchant their worlds.  However, I would if I could. Love you girls.

3 comments:

  1. This one made me tear up a bit. I used to have a Cabbage Patch Kid doll too, and they'd made a bit come back a little while ago. Hopefully Leisa pulls through.

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    1. Me too. In fact we had a bunch of them! I can't remember if any of them were new, but we loved those dolls!

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  2. Like Beth commented above, I am also teary after reading this. No matter what our financial situation or other challenges you might of been facing, you always always always put us first. You found the time, money and energy to make special Christmas dresses, Halloween costumes (loved the construction paper turtle), and birthday cakes (the coconut train). You lead my Brownie pack and counselled at summer camp. Letting me cry and snot on you so many times about absolute crap without ever making me feel I was being silly or childish or wasting your time. These are just a few of your accomplishments over the years. You were and are a great Mom and the only one I've ever wanted. Thank you.

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